He also loves to feed himself now, including munching on Cheerios, Club crackers, baby puffs, Ritz crackers, soft green beans, soft peas, soft fruits like apple, pear and peach, and baby wagon wheels. He would much rather put food in his own mouth (THANK YOU VERY MUCH!) but still pleases me by eating from a spoon when asked nicely. We gave him spaghetti noodles the other night and he went WILD! He had them all over the place and still managed to get a few into his eager little mouth! It is so much fun watching him learn how to feed himself!
Tuesday, June 16, 2009
Joey sits though Owen's T-Ball
He also loves to feed himself now, including munching on Cheerios, Club crackers, baby puffs, Ritz crackers, soft green beans, soft peas, soft fruits like apple, pear and peach, and baby wagon wheels. He would much rather put food in his own mouth (THANK YOU VERY MUCH!) but still pleases me by eating from a spoon when asked nicely. We gave him spaghetti noodles the other night and he went WILD! He had them all over the place and still managed to get a few into his eager little mouth! It is so much fun watching him learn how to feed himself!
Two vacations in May!
Wednesday, May 6, 2009
Happy 4th Birthday, Owen!
My labor started at 5 am on May 5, 2005...just a twitch, enough to wake me up. My emotions were all over the place, I remember calling my dad before we went to the hospital (crying) and he asked if I was scared. Oh I was scared alright! I was freaking out by this point because nothing, and I mean NOTHING prepares you for the pain of childbirth. It's so intense. I remember telling Ryan that I changed my mind - too late! :) So we drove to the hospital in Heidelberg, Germany - Ryan doing his best to miss all the bad bumps in the road and avoiding the flash boxes that snap your picture when you drive too fast. We got there in under 5 minutes. I had been having contractions for at least 4 hours and was leaking fluid. They took me to the mother baby unit triage to check if my water had broken then decided to let the doctor check me out. They put me in a room with the most uncomfortable table I've ever sat on (at least while in labor!) I had a big contraction that made me roll over to my side and *GUSH* my water was broken everywhere. I remember telling Ryan to grab the nurse and tell her that we were checking in and having this baby TODAY! The rest of my labor is a blur for the most part. I remember hearing Ryan eating some chips from Subway and I about ripped his head off for daring to eat in front of me...the IV drugs made me loopy and I talked about my children back at home (?)...my best friend Christine was there and I remember her stroking my head telling me to relax and breath deep...and I remember the pure bliss it was to get an epidural after 18 hours and the nurse telling me I was so cute and skinny from behind, and that the pain was dulled for about 20 minutes before I went into transition when the contractions got really strong and I told Ryan the drugs had worn off already. Then came the pushing, and more pushing, and more pushing...for three long hours I pushed until my eyes almost popped out of my head. Then I just had no strength left...I remember looking at Ryan, teary eyed, telling him I just couldn't do it anymore, it was just too hard. He was at the end of his rope too and ran for the doctor. So the doctor came in and told me that I had two options, vacuum suction or c-section. I was not about to have them suck my child from me so I opted for the c-section. Ryan got to go in with me and was there to hear Owen cry for the first time, born on May 6, 2005 at 0342 (23 hours after my first labor pain) at a big 9 pounds 7.2 ounces and measuring 21 1/4 inches long.
Whew, was I tired! This is the first time I got to hold my new baby...
Owen was born on a Friday and by Saturday afternoon we knew something wasn't right. The doctor's told us they were trying to figure it out with x-rays and tests and by asking us scary questions...then they told us that because he was born c-section all the fluid hadn't been squeezed out of his tiny lungs, add that to the fever I'd had while in labor and you get an infection...he had congenital pneumonia. The hospital we were in did not have a NICU and Owen had to be transported to the University of Heidelberg Kinderklinikum. I bawled all night, shook with sobs so great they scared Ryan, I didn't have the ability to hand my newborn baby over to the paramedics that came to take him to the NICU. I felt like my heart was breaking to pieces. It was me and Ryan dealing with our first child, sick. My heart was so broken. Ryan followed the ambulance all the way to the next hospital, they ran lights and sirens the whole way. It was 11 o'clock at night and I had no one at the hospital with me, so I call my old co-worker Lindy. She came and let me cry on her shoulder for three hours and then drove Ryan back to the NICU at 3 in the morning to let him check on Owen. God Bless Lindy, she was my rock that night. The next morning they discharged me from the hospital...we went straight to the NICU to hold my baby...
This was a sweet afternoon nap with my precious little baby boy.
A year goes by so quickly and before I knew it my parents were flying to Germany to celebrate Owen's first birthday. We had already been back to the states twice, once when he was four months and the second when he was nine months. He gave me another scare with a trip to the ER in Chicago while trying to fly back to Germany when he was nine months old, this time with severe bronchitis - all this after my dad had just gone through a heart surgery.
Then all of the sudden we were celebrating Owen's second birthday in California with Ryan's family but still had a party at our family home in Colorado Springs. He got to take his first trip to Disneyland!
By the time Owen turned two we had moved from Heidelberg, Germany to Colorado Springs, CO and we were packing up to move to El Paso, TX to be with daddy - who had joined back into the Army Reserves and was stationed yet again at Fort Bliss.
We spent his third birthday in Colorado Springs with a big birthday party in my grandma's beautiful backyard. Between two and three we had moved to El Paso, had our horrendous moving accident, bought a house, got pregnant with Joey, and moved back to our family home in Colorado Springs (again...although this time a bit more permanently!) What a trooper Owen was through the whole year, he learned how to talk and loved to ride his little green poliezi car through the house.
His fourth birthday was again spent in California with Ryan's parents. And again we had a second party in Colorado with our friends and family. We spent the day in Santa Cruz at the Boardwalk on beach. Owen loves the beach!


Wednesday, April 15, 2009
Busy Bees are We
And here's an after shot:
We are so excited to finally have the opportunity to make our backyard into a personal get away. A safe place for the boys to play and run and swim. I am starting to get anxious for summer!
Joey went to his 6 month well baby back at the very end of March...his is tipping the scales at 19 lbs 3.5 oz. and measures almost 29 inches already! He LOVES to eat food along with his big appetite for breastfeeding. I have succeeded in surprising myself by nursing for this long - we've made it 6 1/2 months now! Such a proud achievement for me considering how much I struggled and lost the opportunity with Owen. I love watching Owen and Joey interact with each other - Joey watches everything Owen does and Owen pats Joey when he cries and tells him "it's okay". He is such a sweet big brother!
Easter was great. We had Ronnie, Desiree and Anna come over and dye 4 dozen eggs - which made for some interesting deviled eggs!
The kids had a blast and surprisingly 4 dozen eggs went fast with two 3 year olds! For Easter dinner we had my parents and grandparents come over and we dined on ribeye roast (way yummy), mashed potatoes, asparagus, corn, orange jello salad, crescent rolls, broccoli soup and we topped it all off with delicious ice cream cake that my mom made for Ryan and me as a joint birthday cake. Yes, this year we both turned 30. So long to the 20's! We are actually okay with it, looking forward to watching the kids grow up and not worry about having anymore. My goal was 2 kids before I turned 30 and we slipped kid number 2 in just 6 1/2 months shy of my 30th birthday! :)
So Joey has another double ear infection and didn't sleep very well last night, so I am beyond exhausted, surprised I even made it this far on blogging. I am hoping the combination of antibiotics, ear numbing drops and Tylenol will allow for a better night sleep for him tonight, poor little guy. Two more ear infections and we'll be looking at tubes...that's a lot quicker than how they handled mine as a child! Strange that Owen has only had 2 in his 4 years of life and Joey's already at 2 by 6 1/2 months. Just shows that no two kids are alike I suppose!
Friday, March 27, 2009
You Do What it Takes For This
Look at my snaggle-tooth grin! I'm growing some good chompers!
Shhhh, be quiet, can't you see I'm trying to concentrate?
Being a mommy really means that you do whatever it takes to make your babies smile, giggle, laugh, love, and be happy.
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
What a Week!
So I haven't been on for a while, but we've been busy bees with all the work I've cut out for myself lately. And tonight I'm having some issues with feeling resentful...upset that we moved back here from quite a distance and my family still can't seem to figure out a way to help me with the boys when Ryan's working evening shifts. Sigh...sometimes I wonder if it was worth the hassle.
Friday, March 6, 2009
5 Months of Poop

Monday, March 2, 2009
Love, Logic and Baby Food
So this past Saturday I attended a Love and Logic conference in Arvada with my best friend Desiree and her sister-in-law Melissa. It was very interesting to hear what the authors of the book had to offer in terms of giving a little extra guidance on how to handle certain behaviors and how to actually use some of the techniques that they give in the book. But as in all parenting advice and techniques, I take a little from each and make my own concoction of discipline, rules, and consequences. Owen is a quick learner and he knows almost all the tricks I come up with to get him to comply, so I often find myself looking for the next best solution to the current behavior problem. The latest problem is listening. The child is simply too busy to listen to what's being asked of him at the moment. He's either too busy talking, playing, or watching TV (yes, my child watches what I consider to be a healthy amount of TV!) So the Love and Logic discipline teaches compliance through choices that the parent can live with and consequences to that must be followed through with when the choice isn't made by the child. They also include an "Uh-oh" song that your are supposed to SING when you are sending them to their room for some "time away from the family" as opposed to Time Out; and they advise you to sing it because you can't use anger in your voice when you are using a sing-songy voice. Makes sense, but is very hard to put into everyday use when you are a yeller by nature! So for now Owen is good at making choices, his toys go to toy jail when he fails to comply and we still use the naughty spot technique learned from the Supernanny. Its a mix that changes on a daily basis to meet Owen's behavior and attitude for the day. So far though, from all the discipline techniques I've read up about and contemplated my favorite saying is from the Love and Logic book: "I love you too much to argue."So I thought I'd share some tips for other mommas out there (the ones that actually read me) about how I make my own baby food. When Owen was a baby I decided that I wanted to make his food at home because no matter what they try to sell in the baby food jars that say "no preservatives added" I still can't quite grasp that the bananas in the jar stay yellow without any additives - mine always turn to the natural brown! So since I learned with Owen I am repeating with Joey. Not only is it easy, but it saves money and waste with no little jars to toss! I have a couple of books that I use as my reference and guide for recipes and storing, "Blender Baby Food" and "Super Baby Food". I just recently made Joey a batch of organic red apples that I purchased at the Commissary for about $1.50 and it was enough to make two ice cube trays full as well as a couple of small containers. I store by freezing the food in ice cube trays (I cover the trays with foil while freezing to prevent any contamination from anything in the freezer):
The picture above is from the day I made both apples and sweet potatoes. I purchased about 4 medium sized sweet potatoes and boiled them for about an hour, peeled the skins and threw them in the blender with some nursery water, poured them in the ice cube trays and here they are ready to freeze and store. Each ice cube measures out to just over 1 tablespoon worth of food and in the beginning he'll eat about one cube per meal, when he gets older he bumps up to 2 or 3 cubes per meal.
After the cubes are nice and frozen I place them in freezer safe bags, label them with the name, date made and how long they are good in the freezer. As Joey gets older I can stop using the blender and start mashing the food with a potato masher to give the food some texture. I found that my Owen is not at all a picky eater and I really think it's because I made all his baby food. To get some good meal ideas I occasionally browse the baby food aisle and look at the combinations - like chicken and pears or ham and apples (those were a couple of Owen's favorites). The only two foods you are not supposed to make at home are carrots (too much zinc) and ham (too much sodium) so those are about the only two items I purchase in jars. So when I am ready to make a meal with the cubes I usually set them up three days at time and put the cubes in sealed baby food bowls in the fridge and let them thaw, when in a pinch to thaw I just zap 'em in the microwave. Then when serving I sneak in the boring old rice cereal or oatmeal so he's getting the extra nutrition without the added fuss!
Simple, easy, healthy, logical (especially with today's continuous food scares!)
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
Taxes, rings, shoes and teeth
So today we had to bite the bullet and get our taxes done. Normally this would be an occasion to celebrate, considering we usually get a hefty tax return...but this year is different. We are getting the nice refund, but due to a stipulation issued by the Federal Bankruptcy court we have to turn over all tax refunds to the trustee for it to be divided among our creditors. Sigh. And I looked over everything and THOUGHT I could try to do it free online via the IRS website, but with the foreclosure paperwork I was unsure what and how to file that, so we took it to the experts at H&R Block and they charged us an exorbitant amount for the peace of mind knowing I didn't screw them up! But that was the last issue we had to resolve with our bankruptcy - YEA!
While we were shopping at the outlet shops Owen actually let us try shoes on him WITHOUT throwing a fit! Gasp! He is finally to the point where I can reasonably reason with him (to some extend anyways)! He got some cool kicks for the summer and he is proud that he will be able to splash in puddles with them...sigh...just have to know the way into his heart I suppose!And the best news was saved for last! Joey is a proud new owner of his very first tooth! It is the lower front left incisor. We noticed it coming through on February 25, just a few days shy of turning 5 months old. I can't believe he is cutting teeth so early! Owen was just shy of 6 months when he cut his first tooth - it was Halloween night 2005. Next thing you know he'll be losing them!
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Tom and Jerry

Thursday, February 5, 2009
Babies, Whistles, and Dentists

Owen and I had appointments at the dentist's office today. I am happy to report that I have no cavities (yea!) but the time is coming soon for my wisdom teeth to come OUT. Yes, I am turning 30 this year and I still have all my wisdom thank you very much! I am going to try to wait until I am finished nursing Joey so I won't have to worry about passing painkillers through my milk and also for Ryan to build up some sick time to stay home and take care of me and the boys. Owen also had a great report and surprised me by going with the dental assistant without me. What a big boy! They checked him out and gave him a fluoride treatment - the doctor says his teeth look great and that we are doing an awesome job at brushing - yea! I was proud to hear him from the next room telling the assistant that he's three and wants the dinosaur toothbrush...can he spit? Oh you betcha! She reported back that he did a great job soaking the room - tee, hee, hee - don't leave my boy alone with water for a second, you'll regret it! :)
Tuesday, February 3, 2009
Joey is 4 months old!
I can't hardly believe that Joey is already 4 months old! Where does the time go?! I took him to his 4 month well baby visit and he now weighs 18 pounds 1.5 ounces and measures 26 3/4 inches. He is 97th percentile on all measurements and is on average about as big as a 7 month old - guess the brestmilk is doing good for him! And what a mild and sweet tempered baby he is so far...loves to watch Owen play, tracks him all over the room and smiles. Sleeping in his crib now from 7 or 8 until 12 to 2 - on average about 6 hours a night. Then he comes to bed with momma, nurses and goes right back to sleep...sigh. Such a cuddle puppy at night - I love to cuddle with him! He just learned how to grab at a toy that's being dangled in front of him - he snatches it up and brings it directly to him mouth (so it already begins!) He really is a lot of fun and Owen has decided that he's not going to give him up - he tells people that Joey lives at our house and that he's Joey's big brother. So proud! We really are blessed beyond all belief!

